Till death do you part? Congratulations!! You have found your soul mate, or your partner for life and are craving a better sex life. You marry or make a commitment  and are prepared to ride off into the sunset on the white horse with cartoon birds chirping gleefully in the background. Flash forward, now you are married or living together, and all though you still love this person, do you feel too tired or stressed to get up the energy to make love? Is the day at work, money issues, kids, dogs, relatives and friends, commitments and committees all coming to bed with you and you feel like there simply isn't enough energy or room in the bed to make love?